How does a municipal government come to terms with new laws? Does the community have a meaningful say in what happens in their town? Is a woman truly respected in a position of power? These were the questions that first came to mind when I was assigned this project.
Leading Under Constraint
The semi-structured interview I conducted with Michelle Smibert, Deputy Mayor of Thames Centre, offered valuable insight into the realities of municipal leadership. Rather than describing politics primarily as a matter of power or authority, Smibert consistently framed leadership as the difficult work of balancing competing responsibilities. Throughout our conversation, one idea emerged repeatedly: effective municipal leadership requires making responsible decisions under conditions of constant constraint. Financial limitations, provincial legislation, community expectations, and institutional norms all shape what municipalities can accomplish. Yet these constraints do not diminish leadership. They define it. This blog explores how Smibert navigates structural constraints, community expectations, invisible labour, and gendered assumptions while remaining committed to serving the long-term interests of her community. Her experience demonstrates that municipal leadership is less about exercising authority than about exercising sound democratic judgment.
Structural Constraints and Democratic Judgment
In discussing how municipal government operates, several structural constraints and limitations became apparent. When reflecting on her early experiences in council, Smibert noted that long-standing members had developed entrenched customs and norms that made them resistant to change. This reluctance to adopt new approaches revealed that Smibert faced not only formal institutional limitations, but also informal ones such as the norms and practices that shape decision-making and whose authority is recognized.
I sat on the county council, and there was very much a split. Half of the members had been there for many, many years; half of us were new. So, as a new member of the council, I was asking questions, like, why do we do it this way? … And the other group were getting tired of hearing those questions because it was ‘well, we’ve been doing this forever’. So, there was a bit of friction, between those two groups in terms of the … I wouldn’t say an “old boys club,” but a “status quo club…” whereas some of us just wanted to know, is there a better way? is there… something newer that we can do more innovatively? I was definitely part of that group, and I think it changed the dynamic a little bit. Unfortunately, it caused some friction, but I think again, at the end of the day, that’s our role to ask and to make sure that the services that we deliver meet the expectations of the community.
This tension illustrates how informal norms, what Smibert describes as a “status quo club,” can be just as constraining as formal rules, particularly for newer members seeking change.
Rather than accepting established practices simply because they were familiar, Smibert viewed questioning existing procedures as an essential democratic responsibility. Her willingness to ask, “Why do we do it this way?” was not an act of confrontation but an effort to ensure that municipal institutions continued serving the needs of the community rather than reproducing tradition for its own sake. Leadership therefore becomes an exercise in critical judgment rather than passive administration.
Beyond the status quo frameworks, Smibert emphasized the significant financial constraints and provincial mandates that further limit municipal decision-making. While her leadership is deeply rooted in community-centred values, she acknowledges the tension municipal leaders face between responding to immediate community demands and prioritizing long-term sustainability.
I hear the [public] concerns, but I have to balance that between…what our role is and what our job is for the whole community, not just for a certain segment.
Then there are the pressures from above.
What the province is doing right now is that its main goal is to build more homes. So, as a municipality, we are losing our control over what our municipalities look like because there’s this magic number that each municipality has to hit. So, we’re losing our control. … Provincial policy is having, I think, a negative impact on how elected officials can shape our community. And if we can’t shape our own community, then for me, that’s really frustrating.
Smibert’s frustrations with provincial housing mandates also reveal a broader democratic concern. Her objection is not to growth itself but to the erosion of local autonomy. Municipal councils are elected to shape the future of their own communities, yet provincial legislation increasingly limits their ability to determine where and how development occurs. Her reflections therefore raise an important question about democratic governance itself: how meaningful is local representation if local governments no longer possess the authority to shape the places they were elected to serve?
Community Before Popularity
One of the clearest themes to emerge from my conversation with Michelle Smibert was her conviction that leadership is fundamentally about serving the long-term interests of the community rather than seeking public approval. As she explains, “If it’s not for the community, then you’re doing it for the wrong reasons.” This deceptively simple statement captures her entire philosophy of municipal governance. Leadership is not measured by electoral popularity or public recognition, but by a willingness to make decisions that strengthen the community over time, even when those decisions are difficult or unpopular.
Smibert repeatedly returned to the challenges of balancing immediate public expectations with long-term planning. Whether discussing annual budgets, strategic planning, infrastructure investment, or growth management, she emphasized that municipal councils are responsible not only for addressing today’s concerns but also for safeguarding the future of the community. Responsible budgeting, she argues, requires resisting the temptation to prioritize short-term political gains at the expense of long-term financial sustainability. Likewise, strategic plans provide a framework that enables councils to move beyond reacting to immediate pressures and instead make decisions guided by broader community goals.
This perspective is particularly evident in her discussion of difficult council decisions. Smibert acknowledges that elected officials frequently face criticism when raising taxes, investing in infrastructure, or supporting planning decisions that may not satisfy every resident. Yet she argues that avoiding difficult choices simply because they are unpopular ultimately fails the very communities councillors are elected to serve. Fiscal responsibility therefore becomes more than sound financial management; it is an ethical commitment to ensuring that future residents inherit communities capable of meeting their needs.
Smibert consistently distinguishes between leadership and popularity. Responsible governance sometimes requires making decisions that disappoint residents in the short term while protecting the long-term sustainability of the community. Democratic leadership, in her view, requires balancing competing interests rather than simply responding to the loudest voices. Effective municipal leaders must listen carefully to their constituents, but they must also exercise independent judgment, weighing immediate demands against broader responsibilities to future generations and the community as a whole.
Invisible Labour and a Gendered Perspective
Municipal representation extends far beyond formal council meetings. Throughout the interview, Smibert repeatedly emphasized that democratic leadership continues in grocery stores, hockey arenas, community events, open houses, and informal conversations with residents. These everyday encounters illustrate a form of invisible labour rarely recognized in formal descriptions of political office. Municipal leaders remain continually accessible to the communities they serve, answering questions, listening to frustrations, and explaining difficult decisions long after council meetings have ended.
We really do strive to get into the community. I have friends, obviously, that live in Thames Centre. They’re telling me all the time what’s good and what’s not so good. And even in the grocery store, people will stop, say, ‘hey, what about this?’ and ‘I don’t like that.’ Being in the community, you’re there, and that’s my job. … It really is two-way. We need to make an effort to make sure that we’re going out to the community and that we’re addressing their concerns. They may not like the answers they hear, but at least we’re trying to engage with them.
Rather than viewing these interactions as burdens, Smibert understands them as essential components of democratic representation. Listening becomes part of governing itself.
Community Leadership
Smibert repeatedly describes leadership through what she calls a “family lens.” Rather than focusing on individual interests or isolated policy questions, she asks what serves the community as a whole across generations. Seniors, children, young families, recreation programs, affordable housing, accessibility, and long-term planning all become interconnected parts of a broader vision of community well-being.
I think my lens is more like a family lens; as a family and Thames Centre, what services or programs would be beneficial? … I think that’s what women can bring to the table—that holistic “What’s good for the family?” That’s the key to a successful community: we want to offer programs and services to everyone. whether it’s a senior, like at the senior’s center, or whether it’s early programs for young babies and younger kids, or just teenagers. … Anything that we can do to help everyone. I know that we can’t be everything to everyone, but I think I will try to make sure that we’re looking at everyone within the municipality, not just a certain segment.
Smibert consistently approaches municipal decision-making through the lens of the community as a whole. Rather than evaluating issues in isolation, she considers how decisions affect residents across different stages of life and across multiple areas of municipal responsibility. Discussions of housing, recreation, infrastructure, accessibility, budgeting, and economic development are never treated as separate policy silos but as interconnected questions about the kind of community council is helping to build. This broader perspective reflects her conviction that municipal leadership requires balancing immediate needs with the long-term well-being of the community.
Learning to Lead
One of the most striking aspects of Michelle Smibert’s interview is her refusal to present leadership as mastery. Throughout our conversation, she repeatedly returned to the importance of learning, adapting, and remaining open to new perspectives. Experience has taught her to communicate more clearly, listen more carefully, adjust her expectations, and make decisions through a longer-term lens. Leadership, in her view, is not about having all the answers but about continually developing the judgment necessary to balance competing interests while serving the long-term well-being of the community.
This philosophy also reflects a broader understanding of democratic leadership. Rather than pursuing popularity or personal advancement, Smibert consistently returns to one guiding principle: decisions should be made in the best interests of the community. Whether navigating provincial mandates, responding to residents in the grocery store, balancing financial constraints, or resisting pressure to prioritize short-term popularity over long-term sustainability, she understands leadership as an ongoing commitment to public service grounded in responsibility, sound judgment, and care.
As our interview ended, Smibert offered the most revealing reflection on her career: “I’m still learning. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not like I figured everything out. I still am learning, and that’s a good thing.”
Rather than presenting leadership as certainty, Michelle Smibert presents it as a process of continual learning. Her experience reminds us that effective municipal leaders are not those who claim to know everything, but those who remain willing to ask questions, adapt to changing circumstances, and continue learning in service of the communities they represent.
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